Every person, no matter how "ordinary," fills bigger shoes, casts a longer shadow, makes a deeper impact than they imagine. While most of us tend to think that there's nothing particularly special or extraordinary about us, that isn't true. I believe that in every life there is a story worth telling that will inspire, comfort, embolden or propel another; that in living our life, we prove to someone else they are not alone and that there is always a reason for hope. It's only right and fitting, then, that those stories (that we're usually so busy living to notice), get called forth and urged into the sunlight where they can shine on and encourage, delight and promote unity among their fellow humans. It's my privilege to be part of that process - to unearth a person's story and help them (and others) see them as the main character of their one-of-a-kind life story. It's my privilege to be part of the process of giving this beautiful and powerful gift of dignity to humanity.

I obviously need to get to know the Mom or Dad so the process begins with research on the subject of the story. If it's a surprise for the recipient, I would work with those who know the person. If it's not a surprise, I would work directly with the subject. Don't be turned off by the word research, okay? The research I do is fun; it includes some worksheets, lists, ranking, some brainstorming - and some enjoyable interviews that are more like informal chats. All that is the means to collect the information about and feel the "vibe" of the subject so their personality can really shine and the story can be as enthralling, relatable and authentic as possible. Once I've gathered what I need, the writing begins. I'll share a first draft so you can get a feel for the project and provide feedback. I'll take another pass at it incorporating your comments, and once you sign off that the project is to your liking, I provide a file with the completed story.

Not to sound cagy, but it depends on the scope of the story. Writing isn't something easily quantified. Some of the time is spent outlining; some in thought; and some at the keyboard. In broad strokes, I can say around four weeks. If there is any reason I think it would take longer, I'd let you know upfront.